Here are some reasons why you get judged

Comparisons: especially language, heights, manners, skills

Cleanliness:  snotty noses, dirty clothes, food in hair, dirt eater

Behaivour:  neat, messy, not polite, noisy, sulky, silent, rowdy, violent, constant tv watcher, uses a dummy

Possessions:  not enough toys, too many toys, wrong toys, toy obsession

Eating: can't eat, eats too much, wrong food, not enough food, bottle feed, still on breast, not on breast

....yep pretty much everything is up for judgement!